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I called him " BHAIYA ".

I was in class 6th .One of my neighbor who was also my good friend was playing with me on the terrace and suddenly I realized that he was trying to touch me in a way, which was making me uncomfortable. I wanted to leave that place and when I was running on the stairs, he ran towards me and pushed me forward. I fell down and he ran away. I opened my eyes in the hospital bed. My parents questioned me how did i fell down. I didn't had the courage to tell them that he pushed me and touched me in a bad manner because somewhere around I was afraid of the mentallity that maybe everyone will blame me that's why I was playing with him or maybe I instigated him. Although he shifted from their but the fear of that stayed with me for a long time.

But, now I'm writing this NOT TO GAIN SYMPATHY but to tell people that IT'S NOT MY FAULT if someone touches me.Although, he harmed me because he was angery that I asked him to step back. I knew, Male ego was involved, but now I know that if stuff like this happens to me again I am not going to run away or stay queit, I'm going to slap him as hard as I can, so that he can feel the pain I went through when I was in hospital with 3 stiches on my head.

THE STORY ENLIGHTENED ME ENOUGH TO LEARN THE LESSON THAT : Don't sympathise youself. Stay clear in your head whether what's wrong and what's right, take action in the moment, so that you could live fearless and be proud of yourself, every single time you recall what happened.

Extensively edited by - @blossoming_glory

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